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sparkuri

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Mom's husband is dying of brain cancer, and it's been a rough month, as the docs gave him a month to live a month ago.
Tonight...



Separate issue, last night, outta the blue, a friends/acquaintance ex(?) Initiated some chat with me. I've never talked to her in the 6 years I've known them for any length of time.
I've respected that relationship entirely, we both have despite mutual attraction. Not even looking at risque pics of her he trots around like a trophy. He's a dumbass, not knowing what he had, opting to entertain addiction rather than tend to the family unit, which includes 2 toddlers. They aren't married.
Moving on, we're online chatting, and she starts off saying they've been separated for a couple months.
30 minutes later she says it.

"Wanna go out on a date, or would that be weird?"
I said YES!


He infiltrated her password, read her messages, and proceeded with calls and texts at 3:30 am that he was gonna shoot me, kill me, rip my f*+$$%& heart out, and to meet him in my driveway in 20 minutes where "one of us is gonna die"

Short on bs, I called cops, got my family to a centralized location, and turned my house into a armed tier within minutes.
Cops came, surrounded the block and set up sharpshooters in my driveway.







He either didn't show, or proceeded to bypass the area in favor of his ex's couch, where I sent the police to investigate his possible whereabouts, and he was arrested without incident for felony death threats.

He sits in jail atm, on a $5000 bond.
In other words, after all this, the possibility of being on the street 10 hours later for a $500 downpayment, and he's already a felon.

Unbelievable...

Creating distance.


I of semi-sound mind on zero sleep bequeath to TMMAC my very impressive rock collection.
 

Jesus X

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damn thats tough,my uncle died of stomach cancer he was 5'11" 210 lbs ripped before the cancer when he died he was 120 lbs ,terrible disease, I rather die of something that is instant.
 
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That better be some incredible pussy, brah

In all seriousness, sorry about your loss and good luck with the bullshit.
 

Jesus X

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I would like to give you an "optimistic" but assholes here have ruined the positive meaning of the rainbow :)
 

sparkuri

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damn thats tough,my uncle died of stomach cancer he was 5'11" 210 lbs ripped before the cancer when he died he was 120 lbs ,terrible disease, I rather die of something that is instant.

Cancer man, just unreal.
He's lost half his weight in two weeks.

And the pussy?
I wouldn't even know.
I haven't even physically talked to her in over a year.
This has tragedy written all over it if this dude isn't kept incarcerated...
 

Team Bisping

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Dayum bro, that fuckin sucks..

My prayers to your family man, I've been there with family as well, fuck cancer, you just want them to pass with dignity and no pain.

You did the right thing with the death threats, can never take them things too seriously, hopefully the arrest is a wake up call to him to turn his life around, he'll thank you in the end (hopefully)

Anyways, sending positive vibes you and your family man.
 

Lord Vutulaki

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When it rains it pours,sorry for your situation OP, I sincerely hope it all settles down and your mum's husband suffers as little as possible.

Stay strong champ
 

mysticmac

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That sucks about your mom's husband.

You described the guy as a friend. You should have left it alone.

Best of luck to you.
 

HEATH VON DOOM

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Its crazy how your night can go from supporting your mom to defending your family that fast.

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dacofty

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Well I hope it all works out in the best interest for all. I am sorry to hear about the cancer. But also make sure you protect yourself because you never know who is hiding around the next corner
 

Robbie Hart

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Sorry to hear about your mom's husband. All the best to you and yours......
 

check it

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sparkuri @sparkuri ...you still with us, brother? check in.

and...did the girl catch hell from your pal/her ex? hope she's safe too.
 

sparkuri

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sparkuri @sparkuri ...you still with us, brother? check in.

and...did the girl catch hell from your pal/her ex? hope she's safe too.

Not sure from her end.
My "pal" was more like that guy in the circle who you thought was a good aquaintance, then he stole everyones money on poker night when backs were turned and lied about, then spends the next 3 years lying and smiling and fronting while you can see jealousy and resentment toward you behind their eyes.
 

pattitude

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Sounds like a really bad scene all around! Get the fuck out!
Take care of you and yours and no longer deal with them and theirs. It seems toxic.
 

sparkuri

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Dude's still locked up, but I'm sure he will make bail.
Got restraining orders today.
Can't believe they set bond so low, nor can it be re-negotiated.
It's times like this I wish I weren't too smart for my own good.
But....



"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner."



Damn.

She might be worth the stretch.

If you're not livin', you're dyin'.....


Time to re-familiarize myself with a little Sun-Tzu
 

pattitude

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She's NOT worth the stretch! If she's the mother of your kids then maybe.
 

sparkuri

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Ain't no poontang worth going to jail for.

Although I agree with the sentiment, that really doesn't apply to me in this situation.
:)

Although he ought to have kept that in mind, if that's what you meant.