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heading home now. my wife just called me and said my sister in law's 3 year old just passed away. he had a rare disease called grin . fuck
 

silentsinger

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Oh gosh. I'm so sorry. Be okay. So much love to your wife and the family. Life is so damned fragile.
 

silentsinger

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Don't know who you're closest to here but I'm sure their PM box would be open if you need to bend an ear.

My niece's daughter got through it but was so sick when she was born she was in hospital for months. A friend here lived near to the hospital and as silly as it sounds it was a comfort to know that he was close. People are nice here. If you struggle, let us know.
 
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my wife just headed out to be with her sister..im home with my kids. they still dont know what caused it..sister in law just found him in his bed unresponsive.
 
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PEACE & LOVE to OP and his crew

I just found out a few minutes before seeing this post some interesting/related news; this woman who has a store near my wife's business had been a real pain in the ass last summer, lots of drama and abnormal behaviour. We thought she was just a bitch, but we just found out that right around that time she had lost her son.

Try to be nice to all imo, you never know what folks are going through.
And if you did you probably can't imagine

Be well, @Innocentx
 

Robbie Hart

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Sorry to hear this, it’s a parents worst fear
All the best to you and your family
 

silentsinger

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Jun 23, 2015
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PEACE & LOVE to OP and his crew

I just found out a few minutes before seeing this post some interesting/related news; this woman who has a store near my wife's business had been a real pain in the ass last summer, lots of drama and abnormal behaviour. We thought she was just a bitch, but we just found out that right around that time she had lost her son.

Try to be nice to all imo, you never know what folks are going through.
And if you did you probably can't imagine

Be well, @Innocentx
Someone went into one all angry in a hospital car park yesterday. I normally will have such a go back but then remembered literally the only nice thing that happens in a hospital is childbirth so I let it slide.

You really never know.
 
Jan 21, 2015
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Another dude started training recently at my BJJ club... maybe around 30, nice guy kind of serious but likeable.

find out his young wife recently died and he’s alone now raising their kids alone wtf

I don’t know if these sort of stories help at all. I’ve been hearing a bunch lately from different places don’t know what to make of it.

Life is so weird.
 

BrunoMcGyver

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Another dude started training recently at my BJJ club... maybe around 30, nice guy kind of serious but likeable.

find out his young wife recently died and he’s alone now raising their kids alone wtf

I don’t know if these sort of stories help at all. I’ve been hearing a bunch lately from different places don’t know what to make of it.

Life is so weird.
Damn man, so sad hey.

Day after our wedding last month, wife and I caught an Uber from our hotel to her parents place where we were staying, driver said he does Uber because his wife passed away a few years ago and he was solely raising their 4-5 year old son, so Uber gives him the flexibility to drop him off and pick him up from school.

He just said it so matter-of-factly, like he accepted that that's his life.

Hit my wife and I in the feels pretty strong. Ended up tipping him $10 through the app in the hope he can take his kid out for an ice cream or something.
 

kneeblock

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Very sorry to hear it. Condolences to your sister in law and I'm sure it must be tough for you and your wife as well. Wishing you strength to be there for her and grieve as well during this time.
 

silentsinger

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I need to spread myself around more. I know my best girl friend's kids well but I've only met her youngest twice
Feel a bit bad, a couple I was friends with I knew their son when he was in his mummy's tummy. Seeing him every week or so, him walking downstairs when they came over knowing where all my balls were...so cute to see him growing up. I would be beside myself if anything happened to him.

You take care of them @Innocentx
 

Malakas

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Condolence to the family .
It is hard to find the words to give sympathy for something like this without feeling like it is to little , but I really wish everyone involved the best.
 
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Still no word on what the official cause was. I took off today.. couldnt sleep all night..started putting up a wall mural on my son's wall that i have been delaying for the last few weeks.