Lifestyle Homosexuality - born that way or choice?

[Yuki Nakai's Eye]

im gonna stir the pot a little

I think for men it is not a choice I think for some women it can be a choice.

Haven't had luck with men in relationships? Perhaps you've been in one or many abusive relationships and no longer trust men? Maybe Lesbianism is right for you!

Am I a total idiot or am I making any kind of sense (the two are not mutually exclusive btw)

 

[member 3289]

Your poll isn't showing up on the mobile version of the site.

 

[gangsterkathryn]

I think born that way.

I do think women are more willing to be with another woman to see how it is than men are to be with other men.

 

[Yuki Nakai's Eye]

Your poll isn't showing up on the mobile version of the site.

Just added one. For you it was a choice btw

 

[Gay For Longo]

I think people are born that way
But some people on both sides choose to try something different

 

[Yossarian]

Mostly nature, and a bit of nurture. It's probably a lot more complex than just that.

 

[Shinkicker]

Does it make a difference to you either way @Yuki Nakai's Eye ?

 

[Yuki Nakai's Eye]

Does it make a difference to you either way @Yuki Nakai's Eye ?

No I'm just curious

 

[SongExotic2]

No I'm just bi curious

Fixed

 

[Yuki Nakai's Eye]

Fixed

Don't me mad I rejected your invite to meat up

 

[Shinkicker]

I had a Christian gay non-practicing friend. Swears he was born that way. We discussed it for many hours on end. A couple of things that I found interesting, one was that his first sexual experience (not sex, heavy making out) was with a girl. It turned out to be a horrible experience and she winded up loathing him. He had thought himself in love with her. Another was his dad was effeminate and never ever proud of him or loving to him.

He told me these stories on separate occasions through the years. However, he never mentioned either when discussing him being gay.

 

[SongExotic2]

Ironically Freddie Mercury just came on in the bar

 

[Mishima Zaibatsu]

Cant see how its a choice.

 

[SongExotic2]

Cant see how its a choice.

What about talking camp

 

[SongExotic2]

Like gsp

 

[Mishima Zaibatsu]

What about talking camp

Cum again?

 

[SongExotic2]

Cum again?

Why do a lot of gay people talk like gay people

 

[Yuki Nakai's Eye]

Why do a lot of gay people talk like gay people

There's a whole documentary about this

 

[gangsterkathryn]

Why do a lot of gay people talk like gay people

One of the makeup guys I watch speaks about this a few times.
He doesn't sound gay.

 

[Mishima Zaibatsu]

Why do a lot of gay people talk like gay people

Because theyre gay?

 

[jason73]

Why do a lot of gay people talk like gay people

Repeated trauma to the vocal chords

 

[Splinty]

There's a whole documentary about this

Well that explains it

 

[gangsterkathryn]

Repeated trauma to the vocal chords

I mean. I don't think I sound gay.

 

[SuperPig]

Probably some from column A and some from column B.

 

[Splinty]

I mean. I don't think I sound gay.

Dry spell confirmed.