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I grew up in a mostly black area. Damn near all my friends were black growing up as well as dated many black womens before I was married but I have one question that I have never been able to find the answer to so I figured since you speak your mind I'd ask : why is the go to word for making a black woman lose their mind the word "bitch"? It seems that you can call a black woman any other name but the word "bitch" makes black women so angry they start talking in tongues and go straight to ignition.

Why?
 
OhWhopDaChamp

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I don't know if that's true. My black female friends & I call each other bitches more than by our given names.
A call is like:
" What's up Bitch! What are you doing?"

"Oh Bitch lemme tell you about this muthafucka here."

So maybe it depends on the person calling a black woman a bitch. If a white man called me a bitch, I'd take more offense to it than if it were a black man. With a black man we'd just enter into creative cussing spiced with insults to each other's gender.

A white guy calling me a bitch feels like a greater put down, that you're worthless as a woman.

That's all I got lol.
 
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Hired Gun said:
I grew up in a mostly black area. Damn near all my friends were black growing up as well as dated many black womens before I was married but I have one question that I have never been able to find the answer to so I figured since you speak your mind I'd ask : why is the go to word for making a black woman lose their mind the word "bitch"? It seems that you can call a black woman any other name but the word "bitch" makes black women so angry they start talking in tongues and go straight to ignition.

Why?
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She doesn't like to be called Mel, at least that's how I remember it
 
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If you and I were in a heated argument and I called you a "bitch" I'm willing to bet you would go to talking in tongues while go full blown tourette's instantly.

Complete opposite with white women. They could care less in a heated argument about being called a bitch. I have never used this word in argument but the word "cunt" seems to set them off.
 
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MelE5150 said:
So maybe it depends on the person calling a black woman a bitch. If a white man called me a bitch, I'd take more offense to it than if it were a black man. With a black man we'd just enter into creative cussing spiced with insults to each other's gender.

A white guy calling me a bitch feels like a greater put down, that you're worthless as a woman.
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If i was called something derogatory by someone else, their flesh tone would have no bearing on my reaction.

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If you and I were in a heated argument and I called you a "bitch" I'm willing to bet you would go to talking in tongues while go full blown tourette's instantly.

Complete opposite with white women. They could care less in a heated argument about being called a bitch. I have never used this word in argument but the word "cunt" seems to set them off.
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My old lady's white, and cannot stand being called a bitch. She handles being called a cunt better than that. I think it varies from person to person.
 
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I've never used that word when in a argument with a woman but I've heard it used a few times. Each time the woman has lost her damn mind when it's been thrown at her. Same goes for black women I've seen called a bitch. Don't know why but I figured I'd ask
 
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Hired Gun said:
I've never used that word when in a argument with a woman but I've heard it used a few times. Each time the woman has lost her damn mind when it's been thrown at her. Same goes for black women I've seen called a bitch. Don't know why but I figured I'd ask
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going off of what meli said, was it a white dude calling her that?
 
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No, every time I've heard a black woman being called a bitch it was from either a black man or black woman so the racial side of it isn't in play.
 
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Hired Gun said:
If you and I were in a heated argument and I called you a "bitch" I'm willing to bet you would go to talking in tongues while go full blown tourette's instantly.

Complete opposite with white women. They could care less in a heated argument about being called a bitch. I have never used this word in argument but the word "cunt" seems to set them off.
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Nah bitch isn't my trigger word. If you happened to hit on my trigger word it gets physical real quick.
 
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Alienator said:
If i was called something derogatory by someone else, their flesh tone would have no bearing on my reaction.


My old lady's white, and cannot stand being called a bitch. She handles being called a cunt better than that. I think it varies from person to person.
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Omg I've never called a woman a cunt to her face, I don't want my eyes clawed out
 
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MelE5150 said:
Nah bitch isn't my trigger word. If you happened to hit on my trigger word it gets physical real quick.
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You gotta tell us what it is. If not at least PM me I gotta know so I can add it to my arsenal
 
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Alienator said:
If i was called something derogatory by someone else, their flesh tone would have no bearing on my reaction.


My old lady's white, and cannot stand being called a bitch. She handles being called a cunt better than that. I think it varies from person to person.
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It does vary. And being of a paler skin tone it's not surprising that the color of the person cursing you wouldn't matter.

It's like the whole black peoples can say nigga versus a non black saying it. In black culture vulgar language is accepted. Muthafuckas, bitches, pussies are tossed around casually with no ill intent. So if I'm talking to a black person it's just normal that we're gonna be cursing.

If I'm interacting with a white person there may be some light cussing, a few assholes maybe a fag or two, but the rhythm isn't natural and the whole vibe is more professional.
 
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MelE5150 said:
It does vary. And being of a paler skin tone it's not surprising that the color of the person cursing you wouldn't matter.

It's like the whole black peoples can say nigga versus a non black saying it. In black culture vulgar language is accepted. Muthafuckas, bitches, pussies are tossed around casually with no ill intent. So if I'm talking to a black person it's just normal that we're gonna be cursing.

If I'm interacting with a white person there may be some light cussing, a few assholes maybe a fag or two, but the rhythm isn't natural and the whole vibe is more professional.
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Motherfucker is my bread and butter doe... :(
 
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