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The last chick I banged from POF was a hospital admin. Really nice but had two kids. Our first date she was all over me. More on this. She wore a short dress no bra. Had nice naturals. She was another fit runner. Body was an 8, face was about a 4. I ended up banging her for a couple months. She was a really nice person. Into anything and everything sexually. The problem was she just wasn't as attractive as I am used to and her kids.
On our first date I was fingering her, hands down her dress playing with her boobs. She was grabbing my cock etc etc. I got on my knees in the parking lot and was licking her clit. She wouldn't let me fuck her though. She later said if she didn't like me that much she would have fucked me that night. She thought that since she liked me it would be better to make me wait until the second date.
She was Italian with a slight temper. One night I was suppose to stay at her house. I was already talking to other chicks at this point. I asked her if I should wear going out clothes to come over. She got pissed because she took as I was just coming over to fuck her and not take her out. I was trying to see if we were fucking then going out or going out then fucking. Her attitude gave me an opening to break up with her. It was perfect timing. I ended up dating a gorgeous chick for a couple months after that. I broke up with her also. Vegan hippy chick who thought it was OK for a dog she was watching to bite the shit out of me.