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  1. silentsinger

    silentsinger Ok Banger

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    If you wouldn't stop being so shady and be facebook friends with me you would see why there isn't owt shady and who he is.
     
  2. RaginCajun

    RaginCajun The Female Orgasm Is A Myth

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    Well now I feel bad for poor guy. You should at least give him an old 67.
     
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  3. silentsinger

    silentsinger Ok Banger

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    Been using excuse after excuse for months. He knows I was well enough to watch the Arsenal game because we were all talking about it on our group Arsenal thing.
     
  4. Splinty

    Splinty Shake 'em off
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  5. Elrond

    Elrond Lord of Rivendell
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    Ahem
     
  6. conor mcgregor nut hugger

    conor mcgregor nut hugger #JUSTICE4KWING

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    Apparently that's a thing on this forum.
     
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  7. jason73

    jason73 never bernie
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    just let the guy smash already
     
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  8. Jdog93

    Jdog93 Grrrrrrrr..

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  9. Rhino

    Rhino Channel Moderator

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    It's easy.... Say "no"..… you're a grown ass person dealing with another grown ass person, a assertive "no" will suffice.
     
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  10. BootScraper

    BootScraper Posting Machine
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    "No, thanks."

    If they nag you, you can politely ask them to respect your decision, or tell them to piss off. Don't overthink it.
     
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  11. Leigh

    Leigh Professional Fighter
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    You take offense, you don't give offense.
     
  12. Filthy

    Filthy ZBM2.

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    my grandpa told me "once you learn to say No, you can choose"

    is this a 'not now' or a 'never gonna' type of "No"?

    be polite, be firm, and a have a plan to kill everyone in the room.
     
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  13. Splinty

    Splinty Shake 'em off
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  14. Dick Niaz

    Dick Niaz Think of the shadow!

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    I have come to learn that when I coach the people who report to me, it is always better to address a situation head on. Ask if they would be open to receiving some feedback (or in your case, if they would be willing to let you open up). Be polite and ensure they know there is nothing personal here so they should not take offense. Open up honestly, but you don't need to be apologetic for making the right choice for you. That said, remember to empathize, regardless of their reaction.

    Or just have a friend pass the guy a note during recess. That always seemed to work in grade school.
     
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  15. silentsinger

    silentsinger Ok Banger

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    I did the decent thing and just ignored the text because I’m too much of a pansy to say no thanks

    if he wasn’t part of a circle of my football team’s friends I’d be more up front but I don’t want there to be an atmosphere. I’ll text him later and say I fell asleep.
     
  16. Shang Tsong2

    Shang Tsong2 ATM 3 CHAMPION OF THE WORLD
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    Good job not following anyones advice and fucking up as usual, dipshit
     
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    Filthy ZBM2.

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  18. Shang Tsong2

    Shang Tsong2 ATM 3 CHAMPION OF THE WORLD
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    When have I ever asked for advice? I ask for concrete answers, I don't need opinions
     
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  19. silentsinger

    silentsinger Ok Banger

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    Jesus fuck.
     
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    Jesus saves.

    Have you not heard the good news?
     
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  22. Splinty

    Splinty Shake 'em off
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    Lmao
     
  23. conor mcgregor nut hugger

    conor mcgregor nut hugger #JUSTICE4KWING

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  24. otaku1

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    Yes.
    Enough
    Op is such a cocktease
     
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