Option 1 seems much better to me.
But thanks for the kind words about the old dear. She was a cutie in her day and I'm not exactly an oil painting, so maybe I should try and rekindle a bit of peen in vageen action again.
You need to reset and try looking at her the way other men do. And I assure you that they do. She'd have someone picking her up in days or weeks if you two split up. Don't take it for granted if the rest of the relationship is good. "A cutie in her day" ignores that guy would be beating down her door right now.
We're wired for the novelty of new. Probably nothing sexier than the excitement of newness and variety for a man. That isn't stability and it is surface level imagination filling a deficit creating a false image that is greater than the real thing.
Don't fuck it all up on fake fantasy.