Sure. But again, never forgot where I left my child. I see very poor analogies used to defend this neglect.
Why'd you drive the wrong place when you tried to drive the right place? Your brain betrayed you due to habituation.
We all agree a parent intentionally leaving a child in a car is a problem. The question is, if your brain blanks out that the child is there, what negligence was there? What culpability is there if your brain at work blanked out the needed daycare stop until some trigger reminded you "oh shit".
Same as the only reason you realized you did the wrong drive was the arrival at the wrong destination.
Fortunately, knowing whether you have a child in your car is fairly easy.
It's simple to drive to your friend's house. Why on Earth did you drive the wrong way to the exact wrong destination on a weekend when your work was closed? would you trust that somebody has made the same mistake even when they need to urgently get somewhere that is more important than your friend's house? I think so.
I'm obviously not making a parallel in severity of outcome. I'm pointing to a common occurrence that you might be able to relate to habituation causing you to not do the exact thing you intended to do the moment you walked out your door. The thing you intended to do even as you got into your car. And 2 minutes later you've completely forgotten that you're on your way to your friend's house. Not because you don't care, but because a lot of moving pieces are aligned against you that occasionally Stack Up the wrong way. You don't drive the wrong way accidentally all the time. just on the right circumstances.
Police officers used to be trained to pick up their brass at shooting ranges. This activity was stopped because it created muscle memory and, even in a life-and-death shootout, police found themselves reaching for brass on the ground. Even in life and death, habituation takes over.
Realizing that the the subconscious habituation doesn't place priority on anything other than habit and repetitiveness, I am pointing out a daily occurrence of the science described. It's not an analogy, but just an attempt at foundational understanding that there might be something here more than a laxidasical approach to childcare.
If I can't convince you that the mother really cares and really tried, then negligence is a good word. But if the mother is doing the same thing as the rest of us, and there is a psychological reason that our brains do these dumb things, then it's just a terrible accident for a caring mother.