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Has anyone got any experience with that?
This isn't a request for anyone to tell me what to do but I'm curious how others might assess or view the situation.
I'm separated cause my wife and I were in complete disharmony on many things, one of them being how attracted I should be to her.
She wants to try again and she's got a heart of gold, is really pretty and petite but I just don't feel a any physical attraction towards her. Demanding a divorce would be like....the very idea of it feels wrong in the same way like abandoning a pet in the forest would feel.
I feel like something's not right when I'm with her, and the way she communicates wears on me (like her mother, she flies off the handle quick and is just generally loud and harpy-like). But I absolutely hate seeing her cry, when she's sad, I go running. If she's blue, I feel like it's my purpose in life to cheer her up. I feel happy when she's happy but no chemistry with her.
I've been seeing a woman and we've been close for a while. She wants out of her very comfortable married life and in with me. I work weird hours and live in a dodgy neighborhood...in a foreign country, I speak the language at a working knowledge level. I make good money for the area but she makes almost nothing so she is not independent. Divorce laws in this country wouldn't reward her and I'm not sure if she understands the financial implications of what she's angling for. I feel important when I'm with her, I like the way she thinks. I like her sense of humour. She seems to know how to control me with little effort. But she does have a child with the man she's married to.
This isn't a request for anyone to tell me what to do but I'm curious how others might assess or view the situation.
I'm separated cause my wife and I were in complete disharmony on many things, one of them being how attracted I should be to her.
She wants to try again and she's got a heart of gold, is really pretty and petite but I just don't feel a any physical attraction towards her. Demanding a divorce would be like....the very idea of it feels wrong in the same way like abandoning a pet in the forest would feel.
I feel like something's not right when I'm with her, and the way she communicates wears on me (like her mother, she flies off the handle quick and is just generally loud and harpy-like). But I absolutely hate seeing her cry, when she's sad, I go running. If she's blue, I feel like it's my purpose in life to cheer her up. I feel happy when she's happy but no chemistry with her.
I've been seeing a woman and we've been close for a while. She wants out of her very comfortable married life and in with me. I work weird hours and live in a dodgy neighborhood...in a foreign country, I speak the language at a working knowledge level. I make good money for the area but she makes almost nothing so she is not independent. Divorce laws in this country wouldn't reward her and I'm not sure if she understands the financial implications of what she's angling for. I feel important when I'm with her, I like the way she thinks. I like her sense of humour. She seems to know how to control me with little effort. But she does have a child with the man she's married to.