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This is what I'm trying to gauge. Basically I'm wondering how it will/would affect us together.
I agree to a large extent.
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If there is no chemistry then why did you marry her in the first place? A woman who will cheat on her husband will definitely cheat on u too.
I say be with this married woman and when she cheats on u then you will know that above everything is loyality.
I say be with this married woman and when she cheats on u then you will know that above everything is loyality.
I've been there, in the same position as you, but I had no other ties. One of the deciding factors in me breaking it off, was that I had met the kid, and she clearly loved her dad. Despite being as selfish as I was back then, I could put up with the threatening texts from a suspecting husband (because I knew I could handle him), but I knew when push came to shove I wouldn't be able to handle being in a real relationship with a kid that had dragged away from a parent.
As others have said, you are not responsible for your ex. Put your own happiness first and everything else should fall into order. I think you have to ask yourself if you can truly be happy with this other woman in long term, all variables considered.
I don't want to sound preachy or anything, just my 2p worth.
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We were expecting a child and had been together for some time already.
Over time, I had lost interest physically (but hadn't strayed). I figured it was a phase and I'd snap out of it.
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Nah. . Good luck bruv....It sounds like you are going to need it.. I wish you the best though.
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to clarify, we don't have any children at this point.
Then you should do whatever your heart tells u , and it would be best for your ex that you move on so that she can get over u.
This is just my opinion.
1) You should not stay with your (ex)wife out of guilt. If you don't plan on committing to the relationship, your half-hearted effort makes things worse.
2) You are not a good person when you mess around with someone else's relationship. You should tell them and yourself to be out of the relationship you are in before investing in another one.
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I appreciate people can write whatever they want but I'm not looking for advice and there's no sense in assuming details which I haven't provided. I see a lot of people replying and adding in bits they assume to be true.
In terms of either woman, I actually have no idea what my emotions are and because I can't figure out what the hell I feel in any deeper sense. Because of this, I'm trying to look at things in other ways and perhaps that will allow me to determine some course of action.
Despite the assumptions there are still some useful ways of looking at things that some of you have provided.
Thank you.
In terms of either woman, I actually have no idea what my emotions are and because I can't figure out what the hell I feel in any deeper sense. Because of this, I'm trying to look at things in other ways and perhaps that will allow me to determine some course of action.
Despite the assumptions there are still some useful ways of looking at things that some of you have provided.
Thank you.
If she's blonde, lives in thailand, drinks yaa dong like water and has a chaffed dick, then you're in for a lot of fun.
It's actually about happiness and feeling fulfilled. You can try to be loyal but if there are things missing in your life that you are no longer getting from your partner that you seem to be getting from someone else, even the most loyal can be tested and break.
Love and sex is really no different than food and water. How do you go on with someone out of loyalty while forgo basic human needs? How long could that go on before it effects your health and wellbeing?