I'll bite, why not.
The political parties are bad so I vote about it. The corporations are bad so I try to avoid what I can but truth be told, if I boycotted every company that I disagreed with, I'd have to go live in a cave somewhere.
Claiming whataboutism in reference to one pointing out another's hypocrisy is a cute way of dismissing a valid argument, of which you have no way of rationalizing or attempting to offer insight as to why one would feel the way they do about a certain subject and perhaps bringing others to see it their way. It's sort of the core of what my initial post was poking fun at. In this case, I happen to agree that privacy issues are a serious matter, but I wish not to engage in serious conversation about the matter due to posters in previous discussions displaying cavalier attitudes about Americans losing more rights when it's politically advantageous to look the other way.
Also I try to keep my ammo stocked in case somebody tries to "get me". I'm not out looking for trouble. Should I be? Is it cowardly that I'm not? I'm ok with that. I was visiting some other hard left leaning websites during the chauvin trial to gain insight and everyone was saying how they wanted the city to burn if he got off. Why? Store owners have nothing to do with it. It makes no sense. Its incredibly stupid in my opinion. I see no value in that. Maybe I thought it was cool in my 20's. Now not so much. I'm not going to burn down AutoZones because Nike profits off of slave labor and has the audacity to preach to others as if they have some moral high ground. What would that prove other than I'm an asshole that takes joy in the opportunity to ruin someone's livelyhood in the name of something unrelated.
Pulling guard in a street fight? Not even sure what to say about that except I'm against it.
Voting is not civic engagement. It's the bare minimum expected in a democracy. Political parties put a lot of emphasis on voting in republics because it's a necessity, but as we've seen in authoritarian systems, it's not the be all end all of political involvement. Most of us posting here are fortunate to live in nominally democratic countries, cities, states and provinces, but in the US at least, an overwhelming majority have no idea what goes on in even local politics unless it involves a tax hike or something that might directly impact their neighborhood. The issue is local politics become death by a thousand cuts leading to disenchantment with representative government and a feeling that well, I'll vote for this team because I like the things they say, usually in national rhetoric. A more engaged civic orientation includes going to local meetings, writing editorials, attending candidate forums, organizing people in your neighborhood when changes are proposed, reviewing the local and state budgets when they come out, voting for boring positions like county clerk and various judges, and building coalitions to take over the local version of a political party if the leadership is misrepresenting you. This is how grass roots efforts are built, sometimes around single issues, but sometimes with a comprehensive political program. It also involves donating to people working on similar causes or to the kinds of programs that need support to bolster the most vulnerable in a community. After this, the next step is finding other like minded individuals or people with similar concerns in other communities and building solidarity with them. This will never be a perfect one to one match so it requires negotiation over what you'll stand together on and what you'll agree to disagree about for now. With this kind of solidarity, people can push for policy to restrain corporate excess or bad foreign policy or address the root causes that threaten everyday safety. Sometimes these coalitions win and sometimes they lose.
Now obviously, this form of civic engagement is incredibly time and labor intensive and that's no accident. It was created by and for elites to maintain their privileges and keep anyone else demobilized. It would be very difficult for any individual to do all of these things all the time, but I've certainly known many people who have done it. I've done it myself in places I've lived. Sometimes you have the time and sometimes all you have the time to do is vote, donate and express your support publicly here and there. Affiliating with the people doing the work on the ground is vital, however, as it at least allows you to think about where and when you can be useful, sometimes via participating in a protest, sometimes donating to others doing the work, sometimes via a simple letter to an editor, sometimes via a few words said in a conversation and sometimes simply by making a phone call to your legislator's community relations person to say no, I'm not down with this. What social media has unfortunately done is make people believe a retweet or a like is enough, which is really the ultimate demobilization strategy, especially when those media rely on an advertising model totally predicated on surveillance and sorting us into categories for targeting with all sorts of predatory information. There is some value in social media participation setting the agenda for media and as a tool to build awareness about something that may not otherwise rise to the national concern, but it has hard limits. Posting online is easy because you hardly ever lose. You can go join a filter bubble or block people or like and share what someone else said, but real struggle involves embracing the grind.
As an individual, this strategy of direct involvement and coalition building is our only hope, especially considering the money and power arrayed against it. Voting, boycotting and finger pointing in anonymous spaces is the most useless thing imaginable. Rooting for this team or the other once we give them our vote is also a way of saying someone else will handle it. People owe it to themselves to get educated by reading books and talking with other people directly involved in processes rather than deferring to YouTube videos and cable news hot takes. Each have their utility, but they're a beginning, nowhere near an end. The idea of policing how reasonable someone is being when you have no idea the personal stakes of some policy issues in their lives is symptomatic of this problem. Rather than doing anything, people can become self satisfied with sounding smart in conversations that mean nothing. "I sure told him" becomes a substitute for I stopped people with actual power from messing up people's lives.
We're currently on the back foot. The leadership of both political parties in this country have more or less written off vast swaths of the population as useful idiots at best in many cases. But the leadership is not the party. Anyone can become the party. On the right, the tea party and the Trumpists have demonstrated this in our lifetime as they took things over. On the left, the neoliberal wing of the party took over in the 1970s and hasn't relinquished power since, though there are signs of other coalitions gaining strength. These victories, when they've occurred, have been the result of massive expenditures of time and often money. But they're proof that they can happen. It's tiring to fight and our political economy is organized so we have less time for it, but it's better to go out fighting than pulling guard and hoping we can figure something out before we get curb stomped.