Excuse my ignorance. You're right, it's not bang's gym. Tj asked if he could come along after I fact checked myself.
Seems as if t.j. wanted it to be an amicable split via this article:
T.J. Dillashaw leaving Team Alpha Male, still working with Ludwig
Seems like sour grapes from where I stand though on the part of TAM.
Def sour grapes. They groom a world champ, and soon as he makes it, he switches camps for money without giving them the heads up.
I have had an expience like this so I'm very empathetic to TAM.
I had a employee, close friend, and hired him to work for me. I trained him and paid him well, put up with a lot of his crap. He then went and opened the same type of business on the same street while taking my best employee with him. (He offered them partnership, that ended up not working out, employee came back. I was happy for my other employee because he was getting partnership and still have a good relationship with him.)
I had to hear from another friend and a vendor. Turns out he was planning this for months and never told me.
I would have been happy to see him move on to bigger better, isn't the only time an employee has left to do that. I am always happy to see someone do well.
But give me notice so I don't look like an ass and I can prepare for it. Tell me first. I don't want to have to hear it from one of my vendors and be the last to know. He owed me that as a professional and a close friend.