That's my experience Splinty. They aren't really Asian, they are American as in growing up in US. They are saying things alot more nicely.Soooooo still no one white ladies. Just inter-asian nuance.
As I said I really enjoy learning about the other point of view. I hope you understand that I don't have the view that you do because I only chatted to other Asians and friendly white people. I never had racist grandmother' to tell me their thoughts. Please don't get offended, my view is not an isolated one as you can see 5 Asian Americans pretty much saying the same thing.