By top uni, i'm guessing top 10? top 20? Tbh, university league tables are completely overrated (even though i work for a russell group uni), i know many people who have with 2:2's from mid table unit etc and have go on to earn far more than many oxbridge graduates.I'd be very happy to get kids and be the one sitting at home taking care of them, and have a wife that can earn more than me anyway. Also she takes care of the investing part so we can retire happily. And paying off a comfortable house. Also, the kids need to go to college and my kids arent going to shittown university - its a top UK uni for them and they need money for tuition and living expenses, and the least we as parents can do is pay the educational costs, since it would suck if theyre heavily in debt straight out of college. I promise, if that part is taken care of, I will raise the kids to be the most conscientious, knowledgeable, open minded, well mannered people.
It's not the uni, it's the kid, the drive of the adult, and it sounds like you'll be started them off a good footing anyways.