Its good to make decisions and be able to look onward. So many people are unhappy in a relationship but are scared to end it because of change and uncertainty.I think it was. He was content being a waiter forever and I want more. He doesn't value education, he gets almost black out drunk daily and I can't live in a life where I'm at home always.
You will find the right dude for you and your son. Someone on your level!