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Qat

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Nov 3, 2015
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I think it was. He was content being a waiter forever and I want more. He doesn't value education, he gets almost black out drunk daily and I can't live in a life where I'm at home always.
Its good to make decisions and be able to look onward. So many people are unhappy in a relationship but are scared to end it because of change and uncertainty.

You will find the right dude for you and your son. Someone on your level!
 
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I think it was. He was content being a waiter forever and I want more. He doesn't value education, he gets almost black out drunk daily and I can't live in a life where I'm at home always.
What kind of stuff would you want to do away from home? I'm just curious. I hear a lot of women say this, but what they really want to do is go shopping and eat out (on my dime of course) I'm not saying that's you, but it is most women. Ask them to go climbing a mountain or back country skiing and they look at you like you're a mad man.

LOL I was just dating a really lame chick. :(
 

gangsterkathryn

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Oct 20, 2015
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I don't want to go shopping or eat out, especially not on his dime.

I just want to be able to take the kids places, free places, go enjoy the world instead of sitting inside, in front of the TV all the time.
 
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I don't want to go shopping or eat out, especially not on his dime.

I just want to be able to take the kids places, free places, go enjoy the world instead of sitting inside, in front of the TV all the time.
Good for you. I was really just bitching about me ex lmao.
 

BJTT-Rizzo

Tanaka Clan
Feb 16, 2015
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I don't want to go shopping or eat out, especially not on his dime.

I just want to be able to take the kids places, free places, go enjoy the world instead of sitting inside, in front of the TV all the time.
Yeah you don't need that shit. In glad you don't have a can't beat em, join em attitude. Alcoholism is pretty destructive. When people have a problem with the bottle it effects more than just themselves. I hope you can get over this quickly.
 

gangsterkathryn

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Oct 20, 2015
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It's hard. I'm packing my stuff and struggling.
I feel guilty and upset but I made this decision.

I feel silly, at the same time.
 

Chief

4070 = Legend
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Jan 14, 2015
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It's hard. I'm packing my stuff and struggling.
I feel guilty and upset but I made this decision.

I feel silly, at the same time.
Don't feel bad, you made the right decision. Pack your stuff and think positive thoughts. You've just opened up your future. <3
 

Chief

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Hi OhWhopDaChamp @MelE5150 :D


I often need some time to fall to sleep as well. But its time you can be creative and think of stuff, even daydream some shiz. Make it positive stuff though. If you can find a 'happy place' in your thoughts and concentrate on thinking about that alone, you should fall asleep nicely.


Watched the first season, not the second one yet. No spoilers pls.


So true. And he probably would have liked that! Haha. Though I wondered how people actually put up with him and counted on a loose cannon like him, even if they didn't have to. I gotta say, the woman he made into his bitch.. Alicia? She was a nasty skank as well. Or this NaOnka chick, or Jane, or Jenn from Mike's season, Tyson. Well, there are plenty.

Btw. What you think about Russel, I think about Sugar. Do you remember her in her original season?
I forgot about Sugar. She was a sweetheart. I just wanted to give her a hug when she would cry. It seems like she had some daddy issues though the way she was seeking the approval of that guy and always try to please him.
 

Qat

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Nov 3, 2015
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I forgot about Sugar. She was a sweetheart. I just wanted to give her a hug when she would cry. It seems like she had some daddy issues though the way she was seeking the approval of that guy and always try to please him.
Yes, she was weak in some ways, but at the same time very strong. She didn't take no shit from the onions (who kinda were bullies, even tho Corinne is crazy hot), and she fucked them up just for that alone. And how!
She also was the deciding factor of every vote from some point on, she basically decided the fate of the game alone, and not to make herself win, just not to make the 'bad guys' win.
So of course her jury management was awful in the way that it was clear they wouldn't vote for her. But she fully knew that and did what she thought was right anyway. And the impressive thing about that is how successful she was at that, she was the queen out there.
 

ThatOneDude

Commander in @Chief, Dick Army
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Jan 14, 2015
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It's hard. I'm packing my stuff and struggling.
I feel guilty and upset but I made this decision.

I feel silly, at the same time.
Life's is filed with hard choices. As long as you are confident it's the best for you and your child it's what needs to be done.
 

gangsterkathryn

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Oct 20, 2015
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I'm sure that in time, I will realize it's right.

You'd think I would have learned in the past from my previous relationship, how to leave and go and be okay but I didn't.

It doesn't help that him, his dad, his stupid baby mama, all telling me I'm making the wrong choice.

I feel confused but I'm sticking to my guns.
 

Chief

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Jan 14, 2015
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I'm sure that in time, I will realize it's right.

You'd think I would have learned in the past from my previous relationship, how to leave and go and be okay but I didn't.

It doesn't help that him, his dad, his stupid baby mama, all telling me I'm making the wrong choice.

I feel confused but I'm sticking to my guns.
Glad you are solid in your resolve. Things will only get better for you. Don't even think about him. Just think about all the things you wished you could do and now you can.
 

BJTT-Rizzo

Tanaka Clan
Feb 16, 2015
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Well the plows are out today in full force. Got about 9 inches of snow. Lakes are chilling over. I can't wait to get out there and get me some fishing time.:snowflake::):snowflake::blowfish::snowflake::D I love this time of year. Seasons greetings mother fuckers!
 

ThatOneDude

Commander in @Chief, Dick Army
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Jan 14, 2015
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I'm sure that in time, I will realize it's right.

You'd think I would have learned in the past from my previous relationship, how to leave and go and be okay but I didn't.

It doesn't help that him, his dad, his stupid baby mama, all telling me I'm making the wrong choice.

I feel confused but I'm sticking to my guns.
Of course they are telling you that you are making a mistake.
Don't look back, keep pushing forward and you'll be fine.
 

ThatOneDude

Commander in @Chief, Dick Army
First 100
Jan 14, 2015
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Well the plows are out today in full force. Got about 9 inches of snow. Lakes are chilling over. I can't wait to get out there and get me some fishing time.:snowflake::):snowflake::blowfish::snowflake::D I love this time of year. Seasons greetings mother fuckers!
You like getting plowed by 9 inches?
 

check it

kids need ninja shit too
Jul 23, 2015
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I'm sure that in time, I will realize it's right.

You'd think I would have learned in the past from my previous relationship, how to leave and go and be okay but I didn't.

It doesn't help that him, his dad, his stupid baby mama, all telling me I'm making the wrong choice.

I feel confused but I'm sticking to my guns.
Thanks, by the way. On the OG, I would have been shit on.
we're all about self esteem building in song's community chat.
have consideration for yourself....stop worrying about how his dad or his ex feels about you leaving.
i'm thinking it's the best choice to not stick around to see him black out from drunkenness on the daily.
and....i'm sure you want a more intellectually ambitious boyfriend.. you deserve at least that much.
pack it up..move it out.
 

Qat

QoQ
Nov 3, 2015
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I'm sure that in time, I will realize it's right.

You'd think I would have learned in the past from my previous relationship, how to leave and go and be okay but I didn't.

It doesn't help that him, his dad, his stupid baby mama, all telling me I'm making the wrong choice.

I feel confused but I'm sticking to my guns.
Of course they say this, you were probably making him better. So for them it sucks.
But this is about you and what you deserve.