Dave's Song of the Day
Robert De Niro’s Waiting – Bananarama
Thursday song of the day: Today’s song originally had a date-rape element that was removed.
In 1984, Bananarama was preparing their second album, to be simply titled
Bananarama. They had had success with their first album in 1982,
Deep Sea Skiving, and especially with their standalone single in 1983,
Cruel Summer.
Cruel Summer was a big hit, reaching #9 on the
Billboard Hot 100 in the United States.
Bananarama would of course include the lighthearted hit to give the single a home on an album, but otherwise, the members of Bananarama wanted a more serious vibe on the record. While they had commercial success, they were stung by critics who felt their music was too saccharine and frivolous. As a result, they intentionally added a darker edge to their new music. One of these songs was
Robert De Niro’s Waiting. The lyrics detail the fantasy of a girl who was unhappy with the men available to her and instead fixates on male images in movies.
The original lyrics had a date-rape situation sending her into this fantasy world rather than just a dating pool of immature and crude guys. This element was deleted from the song, however, as they felt it was probably too extreme. In a 2019 interview, Bananarama member Sarah Dallin denied that rape was involved in the song, although band members had confirmed that the song originally had rape as a motif in earlier interviews. Dallin herself talked about the original story line in a 2017 interview, saying “The line about walking in the park and ‘people are staring and following me’ reflected an uglier stalking side to the fantasy. The date-rape notion was Siobhan’s idea, possibly from something we’d read in a newspaper.” Also, the object of the fantasy at first was Al Pacino, but they settled on Robert De Niro as a better fit lyrically.
Robert De Niro’s Waiting hit #3 on the UK singles chart, but did not do nearly as well in the United States, peaking at #95 on the
Billboard Hot 100 chart. At the time the song was out and was a big hit in the UK, however, Robert De Niro was there filming
Brazil and invited the band to dinner, so they got to actually meet him.
Tomorrow: I got something that will sho ‘nuff set your stuff on fire