Legend. Thank you so much.
So my son is 13 now. He's 5'8 and 13 lbs roughly.
So decided to do what has to be done basically and signed us up to the gym together and so far so good. He enjoys it and has a great attitude. Just wondering if you could put together some basic upper body workout exercises that work well together. To be more specific. I don't want to be overdoing one are and neglecting others. But I do just want to hit all the major muscle groups basically evenly. So mainly just the too 6 you would recommend ( don't have to be limited by that number)
The lower body we can work out at this stage. We will be deadlifting. Probably not going to worry about squatting for now.
Plan on going around twice , maybe 3 times a week.
Thank you . That was my first question.
Hey man - you're more than welcome. Glad to help.
Honestly, just keep it simple. A vertical push & pull, as well as a horizontal push & pull. So think a variation each of:
-Overhead Press (vertical push)
-Bench (horizontal push)
-Pullup/Pulldown (vertical pull)
-Rows (horizontal pull)
Which variation of each you pick doesn't really matter - just pick a compound movement and stick with it for the duration.
Start with a weight he can do 8 reps with and have maybe a rep or two in the bank. Do 4 sets x 8 reps.
(If he feels like he can do more than 8 reps, stop at 8 to manage fatigue for later sets).
If he can't get all 8 reps on later sets, stop the sets when form breaks down. Continue this until he can get 8 reps on all 4 sets.
Then start adding reps on sets when / as he can, stopping at 10 reps/set. Start adding a rep or two on the first set, then the second, etc. Don't go past 10 reps so as to again, manage fatigue.
When he can do 10 reps on all 4 sets, add 5-10lbs, drop back to 4 sets x 8 reps, and start the process over.
Rinse & repeat.
As for DL (Deadlifts):
If you have access to a Trap Bar for Trap Bar Deadlifts (TBDL), do those - they are an infinitely better alternative for a whole host of reasons. If you're just straight bar DLing, have him do Rack Pulls...i.e. - DLs inside of a power rack with spotter pins set such that his reps start just below the kneecap.
If you're not a competitive powerlifter, there's no reason to be doing straight bar pulls from the floor, IMO. Not a good enough risk-to-reward.
re Squats:
No need to have him doing barbell Squats for now. He'll be able to build plenty of strength with them and the form is infinitely easier than barbell Squats. In fact, it's almost impossible to do Goblet Squats wrong.
(As an aside, that's one of the reasons I'm a huge fan of TBDLs...the form is so much simpler.)
Have him stick with this a consistent 2-3x/week for the next 6-8 months and he should make some very impressive gains.
It's a very simplistic program, but that's the point. You're not even necessarily trying to get him "in shape", yet.
At this stage, it's more of a (as my old man taught to me back in the day) "get in shape to get in shape"...build the ability to even do the work necessary to build the base that he'll be able to draw upon later.
If that makes sense.
Also - given his age, about to hit puberty, he's growing, size, etc, if you can make at least one each of the upper body push & pull some form of calisthenics, it will do him a lot of good.
Calisthenics in general are better for triggering growth, strength, & overall results as they have a higher NMA (neuro-muscular activation...basically great muscle recruitment) than standard lifting movements do.
Squats & DLs are some of the best movements to build muscle & strength, right? They're also both really just forms of weighted calisthenics. Dips are called the "upper body Squat" - a weighted calisthenic. Same goes for Pullups.
etc
So perhaps instead of a Bench Press variation, he does Pushups...then elevate the feet, add weight (you can place plates on his back), etc. Or move onto Dips.
For the upper pull, if he can't do Pullups, yet (likely can't...and certainly not enough to complete this workout), have him do inverted Rows hanging from a bar in a power rack or the like.
That should go a long way to helping him get the results you're desiring for him.