I lurked on Sherdog and the UG for years, because for me watching fights isn't enough: I like to know everyone else's experience of a fight to compare to, contrast with my own perceptions. Why did I never post there? I'm a woman, first of all. It wasn't
fear of being called a useless cunt on the regular that kept me from posting, more that the thought filled me with fatigue and boredom. Just the inarticulate viciousness of the atmosphere, the aggression towards all disagreement. On the other hand, my RL friends were not into debating whether or not
Anderson Silva's last-minute triangle on Chael Sonnen was the most sadistic Andy Kaufman mindfuck in sports history when we met for dinner. I know, weird. I talk fights with my bro a lot but I don't wanna text him with my every thought, and my husband likes fighting but isn't obsessive enough about it to consider it to the Aspergers level I do.
Then I saw this place repped on Twitter and figured I'd check it for news. Then I was like, Wait...are these people...not assholes?
I laughed uncontrollably at posts. Realised, these people are all smart. They're not white knights and they're also not creeps. There are women here, awesome brilliant babes. Q and As.
Then I saw all the CDNs and was like okay fuck this, I'm in.
And
then the
software turned out to be a luxury dream. And then everyone was friendly and welcoming.
So I'm happy here! On the UG, you'd just get fucked or killed.