Why do females think they can hit men and expect no consequences?

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ThatOneDude

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Sure, but my bias feels like an accurate, equitable accounting of the bias society has against women. I don't care about "equality", just equity.
Of course your bias seems accurate to you..... It's your biased
 

Emmery Myers

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Well you're wrong and your post demonstrates this. Your bias is so strong that you are uncomfortable providing equal acceptance to a male in the exact same position as a female.
This depends on what the moral and societal objective one values is. Wrong is subjective here bruh, since this is an ethical debate and not a hard science. I find your view wrong, because it is difficult to extract this situation from the metaproccesses at work within a culture, and my view accounts for the fact that one instance in it of itself cannot excuse the real nature of the issue, which men believing there should be equal right to smash women's faces leads to more death. Your view doesn't appear to account for this. You can say my view is wrong all you like while perpetuating a view which extends the culture of violence against women. So I can be wrong, to you and your universe inside your own little mind, while believing in something which would lead to less death in the actual universe we both inhabit. I am comfortable with that.

Equality is a misappropriated term. Its about equity.
 

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I can tell many a story of domestic abuse when I worked as a medic but I'll only tell one. I personally picked up the same women on three different occasions after her husband came home drunk and beat the breaks off her. Then one night we caught a call to her house and we're shocked to find it was for him. He came home drunk and whooped her ass but this time after he passed out she major trauma'd his ass with a cast iron skillet. At some point he must have came to because his fingers were as twister as pretzels most likely from putting his hands up to block the blows. He was sobbing like a little girl when we got there. I gave her a wink as we carried him out to take him to the hospital.

She didn't even catch a charge
She should have. If she's can get treatment for her prior injuries, she could've avoided it. She & he are both emotionally fucked up
 

OhWhopDaChamp

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Wife's never hit me and I've never hit her. Some women hit men. Some men hit women. You're either someone that loses their temper and makes irrational decisions, or you're not. Gender has no part of it IMO.
Im gone beat yo muthafuckin ass Pa. My list of your bullshit and attitude is long. As fuck.
 

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Im gone beat yo muthafuckin ass Pa. My list of your bullshit and attitude is long. As fuck.
LOL WTF did I do? You disagree that hitting someone is s choice, and both men & women make that poor choice to do so on a daily basis? That's all I'm saying.
 

Emmery Myers

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Im supportive of any model that has Mel beating I Wild Each Its ass actually.
 

OhWhopDaChamp

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Well you're wrong and your post demonstrates this. Your bias is so strong that you are uncomfortable providing equal acceptance to a male in the exact same position as a female.
Because, physiology, they are not the same. It will never be due to the strength intrinsic in genders. Me hitting a man full force will never be equivalent to a man doing the same.

If a man slaps me full force & I slap him back, who has done the most violence?

No it shouldn't happen but if I slap a child that's 8 yrs old when his father slaps me back with full violence is that going to be equal violence?
 

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I don't like your sassy tone :expressionless:
Are you really going to complain about someone's elses tone? Oh hell nah...don't even try it. :)

And apologies if my tone translated somehow it wasn't intended. Was trying to keep in simple, because I really do think it's a pretty straight forward topic. Men & women both lose their tempers and make poor decisions at times.
 

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I find your view wrong, because it is difficult to extract this situation from the metaproccesses at work within a culture, and my view accounts for the fact that one instance in it of itself cannot excuse the real nature of the issue, which men believing there should be equal right to smash women's faces leads to more death. Your view doesn't appear to account for this.
You obviously haven't read my posts that state my views because I have consistently advocated REASONABLE FORCE and specifically denounced a full powered punch in the face.

You can say my view is wrong all you like while perpetuating a view which extends the culture of violence against women.
What part of my view extends the culture of violence against women? Your view DOES support violence against men because you are not holding women accountable at all.

So I can be wrong, to you and your universe inside your own little mind, while believing in something which would lead to less death in the actual universe we both inhabit.
My mind is not little and my view would lead to less death than yours. You advocate a lack of self defence. Performed correctly, someone may die. I advocate reasonable force to defend yourself. Performed correctly, no one dies.

You are not advocating equity, you are advocating privilege for females. Your ideas of equity are clumsy and leave some people worse off than ever.

A weak male in need of help gets less support under your clunky system than a strong female. It's like the poor white child losing out to a middle class black child because of AA. You can average it out statistically but you ostracise innocent people simply because they are part of the wrong demographic. Profiling is wrong - I'd have thought your large mind would have picked up on that.
 

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Because, physiology, they are not the same. It will never be due to the strength intrinsic in genders. Me hitting a man full force will never be equivalent to a man doing the same.

If a man slaps me full force & I slap him back, who has done the most violence?

No it shouldn't happen but if I slap a child that's 8 yrs old when his father slaps me back with full violence is that going to be equal violence?
That's why I specifically used a very small, weak male and a large female in my example.
 

OhWhopDaChamp

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Are you really going to complain about someone's elses tone? Oh hell nah...don't even try it. :)

And apologies if my tone translated somehow it wasn't intended. Was trying to keep in simple, because I really do think it's a pretty straight forward topic. Men & women both lose their tempers and make poor decisions at times.
I wasn't talking about this thread but overall. I've felt you've been salty a few times. Without ever sending me the slightest bit of nudity. I don't cotton to salty non dick. At all. So fix it or else I ain't really gonna do shif about it. Except be hurt :eyes:
 

Emmery Myers

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Dude, I said I couldn't fault the guy in your hamfisted thought experiment which is based on a highly unlikely and uncommon scenario anyway. I have said, what, four times, that if self defense truly requires it, fine. So you are literally lying or just missing where I have said this, if you say I advocate not defending oneself. Look, we had come to a commonality and you decided to continue, so now we have lost it. If you want to understand my criticism of your views and why the insistence on finding when it is ok to hit women leads to actually actual dead women, read up on the link I showed you. My views come directly from that method and system. Equity isn't oppression for an already privileged class. You understand it with race, apply it here.

Im not going to keep rehashing this argument. Read up on that link and otherwise agree to disagree. Good day to you sir.


I SAID GOOD DAY
 

OhWhopDaChamp

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That's why I specifically used a very small, weak male and a large female in my example.
Because of capability towards strength no male can reasonably answer that. Yes, violent but equal is as lame as separate but equal. It's impossible. Why can't men be expected to be the better person when it comes to violence?
 

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I wasn't talking about this thread but overall. I've felt you've been salty a few times. Without ever sending me the slightest bit of nudity. I don't cotton to salty non dick. At all. So fix it or else I ain't really gonna do shif about it. Except be hurt :eyes:
OMG...lol.

Salty?? Nah...just a guy dealing with shit everyone else is. Work, bills, kids, a bum knee, life, etc. If I've been short with you or anyone else, apologies. :(
 

Hired Gun

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I wasn't talking about this thread but overall. I've felt you've been salty a few times. Without ever sending me the slightest bit of nudity. I don't cotton to salty non dick. At all. So fix it or else I ain't really gonna do shif about it. Except be hurt :eyes:
Hold on, I haven't received any nudity.
 

Leigh

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Dude, I said I couldn't fault the guy in your hamfisted thought experiment which is based on a highly unlikely and uncommon scenario anyway. I have said, what, four times, that if self defense truly requires it, fine. So you are literally lying or just missing where I have said this, if you say I advocate not defending oneself. Look, we had come to a commonality and you decided to continue, so now we have lost it. If you want to understand my criticism of your views and why the insistence on finding when it is ok to hit women leads to actually actual dead women, read up on the link I showed you. My views come directly from that method and system. Equity isn't oppression for an already privileged class. You understand it with race, apply it here.

Im not going to keep rehashing this argument. Read up on that link and otherwise agree to disagree. Good day to you sir.


I SAID GOOD DAY
You said you couldn't fault him but you also said you found that stance difficult.

You have only advocated self defence in the most extreme situations and by then it may be too late.

We have NO commonality on this issue. You think that if a woman hits a guy, he should walk away. This encourages her behaviour and I 100% oppose this view. Women hitting men is dangerous to BOTH genders and should not be tolerated.
 

Emmery Myers

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I wild each it is generally pretty salty imo. Gotta default to Mel on that also
 

OhWhopDaChamp

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The argument in race and equality where a certain sect feuded the responsibility of being 'the better person' is strange. Non colored equality amounts to the social acceptance of equal assholishness? Ok brah. Let's all swim in shit then spray perfume on it. Underneath it all you're still shit Son
 

OhWhopDaChamp

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OMG...lol.

Salty?? Nah...just a guy dealing with shit everyone else is. Work, bills, kids, a bum knee, life, etc. If I've been short with you or anyone else, apologies. :(
I haven't been testy with you tho. Fr fr you hurt my feelings and Splinty had to call me a fuckass to calm me down. Just send the fucking semi nude so we can get along.