Strobing flashing stuff isn't a trigger for my seizures.
Did you think for a second that someone who does that is an asshole?
You look like an asshole.
Asshole.
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Did you think for a second that someone who does that is an asshole?
You look like an asshole.
Asshole.
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I was rolling with my uncle one time and a school bus pulled infront of us and its flashing lights fucked him up. Luckily I was driving
I’m supposing to be putting cabinets together to update our Laundry. I’m not a handyman and I hate doing “man work”. I dropped a few panels on my big toe about half hour ago and I lost my shit.
I asked myself out loud, in front of my wife, why I get lumped with doing this shit and don’t like doing shit work like this. I carried on and the wife stormed upstairs.
We’re doing this because we need a suitable place to bathe and change our baby when he gets here (our bathroom only has a shower, no bath). Obviously I helped make the baby but I only did it because I got fucking sick to death of her going on and on and on and on about how we should have a family. I’ve been pretty chilled about things up to now, but I’m one who tries to only do things if I see the benefit of it. He’snot here yet- but to be honest I am yet to see any benefit to having a child. Rant over.
I asked myself out loud, in front of my wife, why I get lumped with doing this shit and don’t like doing shit work like this. I carried on and the wife stormed upstairs.
We’re doing this because we need a suitable place to bathe and change our baby when he gets here (our bathroom only has a shower, no bath). Obviously I helped make the baby but I only did it because I got fucking sick to death of her going on and on and on and on about how we should have a family. I’ve been pretty chilled about things up to now, but I’m one who tries to only do things if I see the benefit of it. He’snot here yet- but to be honest I am yet to see any benefit to having a child. Rant over.
Might want to sit on that one, bud. Maybe edit it in the morning, but from my perspective, you kinda look like a cunt.
Hire someone or don't be a pussy.
Hire someone or don't be a pussy.
Well for years - literally about 2 decades - I said I didn’t want children because I’m proudly a self-indulgent motherfucker. I never hid that from anybody. Don’t get me wrong - I’m gonna be the best damn dad I can be to my boy when he’s here - he deserves nothing less, but I’d be lying if I said that - right at this very moment - there was nothing else I’d rather do than putting shit together and being a “man” man
Btw - I’ve redone our yard and single handedly put our boys room together while working two jobs. I’m many things, good and bad, but a pussy def ain’t one of em
He's not a fairy tale, bro.
He's gonna be here, he's gonna be real and he's gonna need you.
He's gonna need you at your best.
It's just some cabinet doors. If you can't handle it, pass it on to somebody else who's qualified.
Don't feel bad to hand over some work. Believe me, you'll have your hands full and years and years of work ahead.
Kids are a commitment.
I get all that man.
My original point still stands - I haven’t yet felt any benefit from being a dad. Maybe that will change when he’s here. Some peoples top life goals are being a parent. I’m not that guy.
It won’t stop me from being at my best, but it’s still the truth.
When's the due date?
Names picked out? Boys names our tough imo
Names picked out? Boys names our tough imo
Being a dad isn't supposed to benefit you.
Hence why I didn’t ever want children and had to metaphorically have my arm twisted every which way to help make one.
Yes, we have a name. He’ll be here in about 8 weeks.
No Is a complete sentence.
Do you have kids?
As in I could’ve said no and put my foot down? You’re right, I said no but didn’t put my foot down. That’s on me. It’s fine though because as I mentioned before I’m mostly chilled about this kids thing.
Def getting a vasectomy after he’s born though. People think ‘only children’ are spoiled and lonely and blah blah ducking blah. Fuck all that.
Raising children is intimidating, I get that.
Nice man.
I’ve had two serious relationships in my life. First Lady was a batshit crazy alcoholic bogan…who didn’t want kids.
Second lady is one of the most wonderful people I’ve ever met and one of the few people I have the pleasure of calling my friend. (Of course I’m talking about my wife). Her #1 destiny is being a mum.
For me it would ideal if I could all the traits of my wife with the same desires of kids as my ex. Life didn’t work out thT way hahahaha
I’m not intimidated. At least not yet. As I said, I’m not geared to being a dad, so I’m only going to do it with one kid. Anymore than one, then I probably wouldn’t be at my best. I can do something to control that and that’s exactly what I plan to do. One and done.
Nah. Never wanted them at all. Way way too time and money selfish. Missus is the best thing that's ever happened to me, though.
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Kinda sounds like you have one foot in and one foot out.
Not at all man. It means I feel like I can have one child I can give 100% to, or two kids I can give 50% to each. I don’t think I could give 100% to more than one child. Makes it a no brainer for me.
No offence, but that's some shit arithmetic, bro.
At the end of the day, if you can have more than one kid be a good dad to them all and still be happy that’s great - good on you. I can’t.
Im sure I can be a good dad to one, but don’t think I can be a good dad to more than one child, so why on earth would I bring more kids into the world. Who would I be to do that?